In my last article about my new online community The Upper Room I wrote:

‘The intention of this community is to support each member to come into deeper communion with the Creator, each other, and all of creation.’

We can put that intention in different words that are even more simple and concise:

The intention is to go to Heaven.

Anything that distracts us from that focus is essentially the definition of sin.  It causes disconnection and thus suffering to ourselves and others.

This brings forward a few of life’s most important questions which sadly are rarely discussed.

Where is heaven?

What is heaven?

And how do we get there?

These are not questions we can merely answer verbally, or just by repeating a belief someone taught us to say.

The answers come through a continuing transformation and healing, of the mind, body, heart, and soul.

The answers come by being willing to let go more and more fully and allow God to make us a new creation.

The answers come through committing to the process of metanoia.

What is metanoia?

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Metanoia (Greek: μετάνοια) is one of the most important words in the New Testament.

Most English Bibles translate it as “repentance,” but that translation is somewhat limited because modern people often hear repentance as:

Feeling guilty

Being sorry

Apologizing for sins

The original Greek is richer.

Meta = beyond, after, change

Nous = mind, intellect, perception, way of seeing

So metanoia literally means something like:

A transformation of mind, perception, consciousness, and orientation.

Not merely “I did something bad.”

Rather:

I now see reality differently.

This is why when Christ begins preaching:

“Repent, for the Kingdom of Heaven is at hand.” (Matthew 4:17)

The deeper sense is:

“Change the way you see. Awaken. Reorient your entire being because God’s Kingdom is present.”

Many modern scholars believe “undergo a radical change of heart and mind” is closer to the Greek than simply “repent.”

This is one reason the Desert Fathers, Gregory of Nyssa, Maximus the Confessor, and other Christian mystics viewed the Christian life as a lifelong metanoia. It wasn’t a one-time emotional conversion. It was an ongoing transformation of perception until one sees all things through God.

For St. Maximus especially, sin is fundamentally a misperception of reality. We become attached to created things as if they were ultimate. Metanoia is the healing of vision so that everything is seen in its proper relation to God.

In that sense, metanoia is not merely moral.

It is:

intellectual

psychological

spiritual

existential

A complete reordering of the person.

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May this space, and the core purpose of my work, hold a healing energy, intelligent insight, and compassionate guidance, that supports you in moving more fully through the  process of metanoia

May God bless you.

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At the end of 2022, a small group of friends began unexpectedly having a series of mystical encounters and spiritual experiences with God and Christ around the same time in the Western North Carolina region.

They began gathering for walks in the forests inquiring into the truth of life’s deepest questions and attempting to make sense of what they were experiencing.

This led to weekly discussion, prayer, and worship music together in each other's homes, recorded online calls together, and to this online community. A friend affectionately named this group of friends: “The God Squad” and the name stuck.

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Intention:

The intention of this community is to support each member to come into deeper communion with the Creator, each other, and all of creation.

As in the beginning, this  community continues to be a place where people are free and safe to ask questions about what they’re experiencing, or curious about, to better understand their spiritual journey. There are no heretical questions or topics.

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Who Belongs Here

Members of this community are welcome from whatever spiritual or religious path they are currently walking.

Healthy disagreements are more than welcome. However we’re generally more interested in finding common threads that point to the one & only truth rather than being stuck in the points of contention and egoic debate.

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The Story Behind ‘The Upper Room’

In scripture, The Upper Room was the space for several events and gatherings that changed the course of humanity.

🍞 The Last Supper:

The final meal Jesus shared with his apostles before his crucifixion, where he instituted the Eucharist (Communion).

🚪 Post-Resurrection Appearances:

The room where the disciples hid behind locked doors out of fear, and where the resurrected Jesus appeared to them, prompting "Doubting Thomas" to believe.

🙏 The Gathering of the Early Church:

Following the Ascension, the eleven apostles, along with Mary and other followers, used this room as a home base for prayer and operational decisions (like choosing Matthias to replace Judas).

🔥Pentecost:

The place where the Holy Spirit descended upon the disciples as "tongues of fire," marking the traditional launch of the Christian mission.

It was a place of communion, transformation, preparation, and spiritual awakening.

The phrase "upper room" is often used metaphorically to represent a place of deep prayer, intimacy with God, and spiritual preparation for shining our lights out into the world together.

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The Upper Room: Invitation to Join the Online Community:

If this resonates with you you’re Invited to join the conversation HERE.

I see tremendous courage every day in the work that I do.

Not the courage of beating someone up in the ring or slaying someone on a battlefield.

Not the courage of performing in front of millions or risking it all in a business deal.

(Though I sometimes support clients in those areas as well.)

What I see people face is something that could perhaps be considered even scarier.

Every day, in personal sessions and group work, I see people having the courage to honestly and vulnerably look at the mistakes they’ve made in their life and communicate how they feel inspired to do better.

I see people facing their old self and committing toward a new self that is still unknown and often feels out of reach.

The only way to do this is to first acknowledge that we’ve made mistakes in the grand school of life.

It’s not a bad thing to make mistakes. In fact, I would argue it’s a good thing.

I don’t think I’ve ever met a person filled with genuine wisdom about the human experience who hasn’t made lots of mistakes in their life.

I’ve certainly made a lot of mistakes in my life and grown in wisdom each time because of it.

This is because the best, and perhaps the only way, to become truly great at something is by having the courage to make lots of mistakes and learn from them.

Michael Jordan has missed more shots than you have. That’s because he’s taken far more shots than you have. Each time he missed, he learned from the mistake and adjusted accordingly.

The path to deeper wisdom and genuine mastery is to make mistakes, acknowledge them by looking within, and continue learning from them. This requires courage.

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There are many science-based strategies to support our healing. There are prescription drugs, vitamin supplements, and physical and psychological therapy practices.

They each have their place.

Yet perhaps the most powerful remedy to reset the mind, the heart, and the nervous system rarely gets mentioned.

You can’t commodify it or buy it in a pharmacy.

The great remedy is forgiveness.

Continued accumulation of resentments over a lifetime is a fundamental source of mental and physical illness, and dis-ease.

It clogs up the heart, debilitates the mind, and increasingly saps the vitality of the body.

I can say with conviction, working with so many people over twenty years, that often the most important person to forgive is oneself.

Sustained self-loathing creates a whole slew of destructive patterns.

On a metaphysical level forgiveness is a time-buster.
It’s the gateway to eternal life.

Forgiveness is uniquely foundational to the teachings and worldwide transmission of Jesus Christ.

Forgiveness restores us to our innocence consciousness. It returns us to the Garden of Eden. There’s a feeling of coming home to one’s true nature.

Christians so often forget that well before the ‘original sin’ entered the human timeline there was the original innocence we are perfectly designed for.

As we mature in our spiritual journey, we do not forgive in order to be nice to others.

We do not forgive because an outside authority told us we should.

We do not forgive in order to get something in return.

We forgive because we realize it aligns our hearts with the Infinite Truth, the Supreme Love and Divine Intelligence.

Forgiveness reintegrates us with the original blueprint at the heart of all creation.

We learn to forgive, and to repent for our sins, because it aligns us with Reality.

Forgiveness is the gateway to the freedom of our inherent birthright. The restoration of all things into their radiant Big Glow.

Forgiveness heals our long-held traumas and wounds and brings us further into the actualization of God’s inherent design for us.

One of the highest commitments we can make is to learn to how forgive.

Will you make that commitment?

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New container for the 22nd season of my men’s mastermind group begins this Thursday, 6pm EST!

A couple spots still available to join me.

Reply to this email ASAP if interested in joining.

More details:

https://open.substack.com/pub/brianpiergrossi/p/an-invitation-to-men-and-the-woman

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Personal & couples session packages also available for both men & women.

When I first started coaching people over twenty years ago, I would treat everyone as equal and the same in accordance with my post-modern university education and liberal sensibilities.

Through trial and error, with many individuals, I learned that was a big mistake.

I had to learn instead to face the timeless truth that there are two distinct paths to the full actualization of one’s life.

The masculine path and the feminine path.

These are the two opposing yet synergistically complementary paths of creation. The design is actually quite beautiful.

However, in our current world, we often fail to appreciate the value in the inherent design of these two distinct modes of being.

Trying to continually force a feminine path on a masculine man is destructive to his strength, confidence, inner compass and inspired direction, often leading to nihilistic apathy, superficial hedonism, and addictive coping patterns.

Trying to continually force a masculine path on a feminine woman creates chronic stress and anxiety, unconscious resentment, disconnection from her body, often leading to chronic physical pain and health disorders.

A masculine man needs something very different than a feminine woman needs to unlock his deepest potential.

He needs to be consistently challenged to grow in his strength.

He needs adversity to build his character.

He needs routine accountability to grow in integrity.

He needs to foster an inner-discipline to cultivate his gifts.

He needs clarity of purpose to harness his vitality and deepest life-force.

The mature man learns to find his highest purpose in self-sacrificing love.

He dedicates his time and energy to actualize his body, his mind and his emotional intelligence to be a stronger vessel of love and service to his family, his community, and his world.

He learns over time to surrender his personal will to God’s will so his life may be a benefit and a blessing to others.

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New container for the 22nd season of my men’s mastermind group begins this Thursday, 6pm EST!

A couple spots still available to join me.

Reply to this email ASAP if interested in joining.

More details:

https://open.substack.com/pub/brianpiergrossi/p/an-invitation-to-men-and-the-woman

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Personal & couples session packages also available for both men & women.

There are two major things that are about to happen. I’m curious how both of these things converging at the same time will affect the world’s major religions, and our sense of meaning and purpose in general.

One is that all signs point to us being on the verge of major disclosure of alien life in contact with planet Earth. To me, a more accurate term is “interdimensional beings.”

The second is being on the verge of the explosion of agentic artificial intelligence right now and the massive changes ensuing.

The increasing difficulty of discerning what’s real and not real, the vast potential to manifest whatever projects and goals are desired in hours, or minutes, instead of years, the decreasing need for our fellow human beings, or even the decreasing need for ourselves.

What impact do these converging forces have on our sense of purpose, identity, social cohesion, and traditional narratives of collective meaning?

Thoughts?

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The moment of greatest uncertainty is also the moment of greatest opportunity.

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Men’s Mastermind with Brian Piergrossi

Season 22

Begins Thursday, May 21 | 6 PM EST | 16 Weeks | Limited to 10 Men

We are living in a time of major transition and uncertainty on multiple fronts.

For many people it can feel confusing, at times even overwhelming.

Yet the moment of greatest uncertainty is also the moment of greatest opportunity.

Accessing these opportunities requires:

• Self-honesty

• Clarity of intention

• Strategy

• Accountability

• Holistic integration

If you are reading this, you are a man I hold in high regard as being on a conscious path of self-mastery and accountability.

This will be my 22nd season leading my men’s mastermind group.

Our core group of men has been together for several years and shares a strong bond of support.

Our community is rooted in this foundational question:

If anything is possible, what are you called to create in these 10 areas?

• Physical

• Mental

• Emotional

• Spiritual

• Work / Purpose

• Financial

• Relationships

• Community

• Family

• Home

These ten pillars form the architecture of a deeply meaningful life.

Our meetings inspire greater focus, purpose, resilience, strength, and accountability to reach new levels of success beyond superficial gratification.

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Who

The men who register for my mastermind groups are interested in a supportive community to inspire and hold them accountable in living their highest purpose.

They are committed to activating a deeper level of clarity, courage, discipline, and service to those they love.

They are entrepreneurs, leaders, fathers, creators, and men in transition who value honest reflection, practical support, and resonant community.

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Some Common Questions

How many people?

This group is limited to only 10 men to maintain optimal intimacy, trust, and cohesion.

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When?

We meet in a weekly Zoom call for approximately 60 minutes.

The Spring season is a 16-meeting commitment, May 21 – Sept. 3.

We meet Thursday evenings at 6 PM EST.

It’s OK if you can’t attend every single meeting.

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What are the meetings like?

The meetings are held sacred as a life-enhancing priority. We begin promptly at the specified time regardless of who is present.

The meetings are fun, enriching, encouraging, supportive, focused, and beneficial to each individual and the group as a whole.

Each member shares ideas, support, information, and feedback honestly and vulnerably in ways that help advance individual and group goals.

All sessions are confidential. Nothing that transpires is shared publicly.

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What is the format?

• Check-ins: How are you feeling right now in your mind, heart, spirit, and body?

• Each member reviews their intentions since the last meeting and whether they have accomplished their weekly goals outwardly and/or realized inwardly.

• Open forum where each member can ask for feedback on challenges, points of confusion, celebrate victories, and request support.

• Brian offers coaching and mentoring support, followed at times by suggested homework.

• Each member shares intentions/goals for the following week.

• Closing.

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Can we stay in touch between meetings?

Definitely.

There is a private messaging thread to stay in touch, update one another, and support each other on homework, insights, and accountability between sessions.

This is, in fact, where a lot of the best stuff transpires.

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Investment

$777 paid in full for the full 16-week season

or 3 installments of $290

Payment via PayPal or Venmo to thebigglow@gmail.com

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It’s been an amazing six years thus far, with many stories of profound transformation among our members.

If you think you’d find value committing to a higher level of clarity, discipline, and purpose while journeying with this small community of committed men, message me this week and let’s schedule a conversation.

-Brian Piergrossi http://brianpiergrossi.com

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Some previous examples of what our meetings are like:

Aug. 14, 2025

https://youtu.be/jYZBaykH7cQ

Dec. 18, 2025

https://youtu.be/1VFlrcQ8L-c

This Thursday at 6 PM EST, we’re opening up the final meeting of season 21. All are welcome to join us.

You’ll hear honest ‘check-ins’, stories of transformation, and an open forum where real challenges, lessons, and breakthroughs are shared.

If you’ve ever wondered what a men’s group can offer, this will give you a direct inside look.

Topics include:

• The breakthroughs that keep men coming back

• Why accountability and honesty are essential for growth

• The role of community in becoming the strongest version of yourself

This is a special invitation to witness the power of men coming together in truth, strength, and support.

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Season 22 begins May 21, Thursday, 6pm EST.

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Join Zoom Meeting this Thursday @ 6pm EST:

https://us02web.zoom.us/j/86441154897

Meeting ID: 864 4115 4897

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What is your purpose?

Last night, in my view, was one of the best meetings in the twenty-one seasons leading my men’s mastermind group.

The reliable structure was the same. The meeting began with each man checking in on how they are feeling in this moment right now.

I then moved forward to holding each member accountable for the actions he intended to accomplish this week.

We then moved to the open forum where each man is free to bring forward anything they are inquiring into.

Any challenges, difficulties, or points of confusion from the past week they would like reflection on from the rest of the group.

After a period of silence, the conversation quickly began to deepen in profound power and life-changing wisdom.

A courageous private and confidential conversation emerged about God, surrender, and trust, personal loss and pain, negative self-talk, the larger meaning in our lives, and what truly brings well-being and fulfillment.

Here is where the dialogue eventually landed:

Pain without purpose is suffering.

Pain with purpose is sacrifice.

Sacrifice is love.

Learning to love is the meaning of life.

Each man then shared his intentions and goals for the upcoming week, and we closed out the meeting in gratitude.

It’s unusual for a group of men in our society to have an intentional conversation about how to love.

And yet being consistently committed to learning how to love is the most mature masculine act there is. It requires bravery, strength, integrity, and sacrifice.

It’s only when a man’s highest intention is being of service to others that he is grounded in his most fulfilling purpose.

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The 22nd season of my men’s mastermind group begins Thursday May 21 at 6pm EST.

Contact me if you’re interested in learning more.

So many people I know are in drastic need of help right now yet unable to ask for it.

I get it. I used to be like that also. I remember clearly the turning point.

It was close to twenty-five years ago. It was twilight in the forest. Many of the best moments of my life have happened in the twilight of the forest.

It was summertime. She and I were engaged in a deep and intimate, heartfelt conversation as the air grew cooler, the crickets began to sing and the day slowly turned into night. I was telling this wise woman, with raw vulnerability, the things I wanted in my life, my passions, my inspirations, my desires, the deepest callings of my heart.

She looked at me with a deep presence and said something that changed the course of my life.

“If you want something, ask for it.”

It was a simple yet life-changing message I was open, available for, and ready to hear.

It struck me to my core, hitting me in a deep way that sent reverberations up and down my spine. It changed the direction of my life.

There’s a widespread perception I used to share that asking for help is a sign of failure, and that highly successful people don’t need to ask for help.

Nothing could be further from the truth.

The most successful people are the ones who have asked for and received the most support of all. In some cases, dozens or even hundreds of people whose job it is to support them in the areas of nutrition, physical fitness, mental and emotional health, spiritual practice/guidance, relationship counsel, business and financial consultants, etc.

The reason is that these people have a high degree of self-worth and self-love and are able to envision a brighter future. They are able to consistently invest their time, money and energy in committed devotion to a higher version of themselves, and their life.

Many people never ask for help not because they do not need it, but because fear, pride, shame, or old conditioning convinces them they have to do it alone. Yet asking for help is the very doorway through which a new life begins to blossom.

If you want something, ask for it.

You’re worth it.

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I remember when I was eighteen years old I bought my first book at the Berkshire Mall in Pennsylvania after seeing a late-night infomercial from Tony Robbins.

It was summertime and I would read it in the backyard in the afternoon sun.

There was an exercise in the book that asked me to prioritize my values in order to become more self-aware of what’s important to me.

The answer was clear. My number one value, by far, was freedom.

I didn’t want anyone telling me what to do or how to do it. I would henceforth make my own rules and create my own life.

I was convinced I had the freedom to create my own reality and I would rebel against any system that tried to control me.

The narrative of a heroic rebel fighting for individual rights is the foundational basis of American culture: our novels, our movies, our history books.

Each person with the freedom to pursue their own individual happiness.

I would be a freedom fighter. I would rebel against any system trying to oppress my individual freedom.

I rebelled against the government, the school system, the religious institutions, the corporations, and most essentially, my own parents.

Why follow any of these institutions or listen to what they say? I saw them all as filled with corruption and hypocrisy. I would follow whatever was true inside me, and liberate myself from The Machine.

Then something quite amazing and perhaps unexpected happened.

Through a long series of profound spiritual experiences, soul-searching, psychological and theological study, a transformation slowly began to take root.

I encountered and deepened in relationship with a supreme, all-knowing, all-loving intelligence infinitely greater than myself.

In other words, I found God through the teachings, and the transmission, of Christ.

For the first time in my life, I found an absolute authority I could fully trust and wanted to give my obedience to.

Why should I follow someone like Deepak Chopra when I can follow Christ? It’s not much of a comparison.

Here’s the amazing paradox.

I discovered in this obedience to God lies a much greater and more profound freedom than I ever had before.

The mind becomes free from needing to figure it all out, from obsessively trying to control external circumstances, from old patterns of anxiety and fear.

The heart opens in a state of effortless forgiveness and loving compassion.

The nervous system resets. The physiology of the entire body drops into a profound place of deep safety, rest, and rejuvenation.

There’s a sense of becoming as scripture calls it, ‘a new creation’ deeply at home in the Now, with full trust in an unfolding plan that cannot be, and doesn’t need to be, comprehended by the mind.

Every challenge I face is an opportunity to continue to deepen that trust and faith in relationship with God.

In the same way that we can look for love in all the wrong places we can look for freedom in all the wrong places too.

The greatest freedom doesn’t come from having lots of choices. The greatest freedom actually comes from having no choice at all.

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An ongoing conversation my friend Michael Parisi & I have is around the question: What is the mind of Christ?

Or what is the mind of God?

I’ve been exclusively reading St. John of the Cross and finding great value in his ancient writings.

What’s becoming increasingly clear to me is that the overwhelming majority of our socially / culturally conditioned thoughts are a complete waste of time.

They do not lead us into a harmonious dance of trust with the mind of our Creator.

They are a waste of energy at best, a destructive pattern toward ourselves and others at worst.

The more one’s mind steps into communion with God, the more this excessive thinking—

*worry

*fear

*anxiety

*doubts

*addictions

*resentments

*jealousy

*revenge

*vanity

*hedonistic pursuits

starts to fade away as strength, confidence, and faith grow into the simple and repeated act of fully surrendering to God’s will, moment by moment.

This does not actually require more knowing. It requires an absolute unknowing. A process of subtraction.

With the continued emptying of the mind and the heart, we become much more open and available for God’s presence to fill us and illuminate us.

My sense is that, as we become increasingly purified on this path, the amount of overall content bouncing around in our head can be reduced by probably 75% to 80%.

Figures like Eckhart Tolle, Thich Nhat Hanh, & others who teach the value of stilling the mind are correct.

Yet, here’s the important thing: You can never still the mind by trying to do it for your own egoic benefit & gratification. It just creates more internal noise.

It happens as a byproduct of fully giving your life to God (the loving presence at the heart of all creation).

I believe this is what it means when Christ teaches us to be ‘poor in spirit.’

After an extended period of disorientation & now reorientation, I have found a most rooted and beautiful home for myself in the rich tradition of contemplative Christianity.

Particularly the Catholic / Orthodox tradition with its long list of great saints and absolute powerhouse mystics to draw pristine wisdom from.

The interesting thing is very few of the clients I work with have been, or are, Christian.

My clients have always spanned every category:  ‘spiritual, but not religious,’ Yogis, New Age, Buddhist, Muslim, Jewish, Christian, Pagan, Atheist.

No one has ever been asked to change who they are.

Everyone is, however, asked to consider the same question.

What are you thinking about each day?

If you look closely, the odds are most of what you’re thinking about is an unhealthy waste of time & energy.

The good news is, through clear intention, dedicated, committed practice, self-inquiry, discipline, grit, and grace, that can and will change.

I can attest to that from my own experience and the lives of those I’ve worked with.

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A full day of personal sessions today with clients in Virginia, New York, Texas & North Carolina.

I love getting deep under the hood of someone’s mind over an extended period of time, working to uncover the patterns that are no longer serving them, and watching breakthroughs manifest in their life in doing so.

It feels like the work God has truly called me to, and I’m so deeply grateful for that.

It’s become increasingly clear to me what I’m not called to do is spend lots of time on social media.

Why do I say that?

The business model of social media platforms is to maximize profit by maximizing your time and engagement—because your attention is what’s sold to advertisers and used for data-driven targeting.

Simply put: the goal of social media is to make you addicted to social media, by any means necessary.

The algorithm has discovered these are the primary emotional levers that get people hooked on social media:

Rage

Fear

Insecurity

Anger

Anxiety

Worry

Jealousy (FOMO)

Lust

I’ve watched social media addiction make so many people I know overwhelmed, anxious, depressed, lost in information silos, mentally inflexible, turn against their own family and friends for ideological/political reasons, and increasingly detached from reality.

As the saying goes, these people need to “touch grass.”

But here’s the thing to understand.

If the goal of social media is to make you addicted to social media, then who is the enemy of social media companies?

Anything and anyone who takes your time and attention away from social media.

The enemy of social media companies is your life.

Your spouse (or potential spouse)

Your children

Your friends

Your gym

Your church (or potential church)

Your state park

Your books

Your inner silence

Your contemplation/prayer time

The greatest enemy of social media companies is you living a happy and healthy life.

In an age of such mass and intentional distraction, I help people stay focused on the key focal points that foster a truly meaningful life.

As St. Irenaeus once said: The glory of God is a man fully alive.

Cultivating the elite focus and accountability to transcend today’s distractions is the latent superpower we must unlock for us to thrive.

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Start Here: The 10 Keys to a Life Well-Lived.

We are living through a time of major transition and uncertainty. For many people it can feel confusing, at times even overwhelming.

Have you noticed this as well?

Many of the people who eventually reach out to work with me are already successful by most external measures. Yet internally they are beginning to sense that something deeper is missing — meaning, presence, fulfillment. A lack of alignment between the life they have built and the life they feel called to live.

At the beginning of working with someone I ask them one key, foundational question:

If anything were possible, what are you called to create in these ten areas of your life?

Physically

Mentally

Emotionally

Spiritually

Work / Purpose

Financially

Relationships

Community

Family

Home

These ten domains form the architecture of a life well-lived.

For over twenty years now I’ve worked with individuals around the world through private mentorship, retreats, workshops, online courses, and group programs.

Over the past two decades it has been deeply inspiring to watch many of the people I’ve worked deeply with for several years, make profound breakthroughs across these areas.

*A woman in her forties from North Carolina has lost more than 100 pounds and is now in the best shape of her life with a growing sense of inner confidence.

*A man in his thirties in Texas recently achieved his lifelong goal of becoming a multimillionaire, and becoming financially secure for the rest of his life.

*A man in his thirties from Ohio is now engaged to the woman of his dreams.

I’ve helped clients overcome depression, anxiety, panic attacks. Self-destructive habits such as junk food, pornography, alcohol, recreational drugs, video games, and gambling.

I support people to engineer the architecture of the life they are truly called to live, not just superficial gratification.

Results:

Inner Life (Spiritual Foundation)

This is the root of everything.

Most people are living from:

• Unconscious habits and conditioning

• Anxiety, stress, and mental noise

• A sense of disconnection—from themselves and from life

What changes:

• Inner stability not dependent on external conditions

• Clear sense of who you are beneath roles and identity

• Reduced anxiety and internal noise

• Consistent baseline of calm, clarity, and groundedness

• Deeper sense of meaning, inspired purpose, connection, and feeling internally at home.
  
  

How it’s developed:

• Direct self-honesty and self-awareness

• Guided practices may include breathing, meditation, and mindfulness exercises

• Reduction of internal noise and unconscious reactivity

• Alignment between insight and daily action

When this is in place:

All other domains strengthen.

Physical

• Consistent exercise routine

• Healthy diet

• Quality sleep

• Increased energy, strength, immune system

Mental + Emotional

• Reduced anxiety and mental noise

• Greater focus and control

• Increased internal stability, emotional intelligence & resliency

Work + Purpose + Direction

• Clear direction

• Work that feels aligned and inspired

• Decisive forward movement

Relationships + Family + Community

• More dynamic, healthy, loving, intimate relationship

• Deeper bonds with extended family, healing old trauma patterns and entering state of forgiveness

• More resonant network of deep, rich friendships

Financial

• Income abundantly aligned with direction

• Easing of financial stress and worry

• Money abundantly flowing as an optimized tool for well-being and contribution

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It is during the times of uncertainty that the greatest opportunities for transformation appear.

For the first time in several years, space has opened in my calendar to mentor two new private clients. This program has a six month minimum commitment with the option to renew.

It is for those who want to passionately commit to deep long-term transformation, internally and externally, to live the life they are truly called to live.

If you feel you are standing at a crossroads and are ready for a higher level of clarity, discipline, and purpose, send me a message. thebigglow@gmail.com

Tell me about about yourself in three to four sentences, and we’ll schedule a conversation to talk about working together.

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Work With Me

About Me

We’re in Pennsylvania, and the whole family has gathered to celebrate my father’s 80th birthday.

My father has lived in the same city his whole life.

He’s been married to the same woman his whole life.

He worked at the same job for close to thirty years until he was laid off.

He’s had the same friends and gone to the same church every Sunday for decades.

He’s walked with the same friends at the same mall, at the same time, six days a week, for years.

One time, my family played a game. We went around the circle, and everyone had a chance to answer the following question:

If you could live anywhere in the world, where would you live?

Everyone took turns harnessing the far reaches of their imagination to mention all kinds of exotic, luxurious, spectacular locations.

The question finally came around to my father, who said: “Berks County, Pennsylvania. Best place in the world.” The place he was born and lived his whole life.

Every time I ask my dad if he’s happy, including today, he immediately says yes.

When I work with clients, I work both on the external level and on the internal level.

Some clients need to make major external changes. End relationships. Change jobs or start a new business. Move to a new place they’ve always dreamed of living. Make big lifestyle changes. Break addictive habits.

And sometimes all that’s required is a change of perspective—finding the gratitude and appreciation for what one already has and what has been there all along.

The simple beauty of being alive is always here and now if we’re present enough to notice.

The way the big glow of the sun gently rises over the trees, the flowers smile with the new dawn, and the birds gently sing in the morning twilight.

Happy 80th, Pops!

We’re grateful for you.

-Brian Piergrossi

An Invitation:

If you’re in a season of reflection on your life, what matters, and how you want to live—I work privately and selectively with a small number of clients each year.

Sometimes the work is about making meaningful external changes.

And sometimes it’s about seeing clearly and learning to fully inhabit the life that’s already here.

Almost always, it’s both.

For the first time in several years, I have space available for new clients.

If you feel called to explore that, reply to this email and we’ll schedule a conversation.

I miss taking time to write. It’s one of my gifts and one of my joys. So I’ll be getting back to that soon.

For me, writing is like taking the time to observe, with awe and wonder, the handiwork of God, then jotting down what I observe in words to share with friends, known and unknown.

Heaven is a deeper dimension of Now that we are each invited to participate in.

Over the past couple of months, I’ve spent little to no time on social media, and I expect that trend to continue for the rest of the year, and probably longer.

Most of my quality time over the past couple of months has gone to the key areas that bring the greatest fulfillment to my distinct calling in this world, in this new chapter of my life:

• Being the best husband I can be.

• Being the best father I can be. (I’m loving seeing this world again for the first time through the eyes of my now almost two-year-old.)

• Being dedicated to supporting my clients and their continued positive transformation in the key areas of their lives.

• Being devoted to deepening my communion with God.

I’m aware there are all kinds of crazy, scary, anxiety-provoking things happening on many fronts in the news right now. My prayers go out to all those who are being affected.

And I also assure you, there’s a quiet, utterly still, and beautiful place of profound peace and freedom deep down inside each and every one of us, where there’s no news at all.

Here’s a reel with some snapshots from the past couple of months with friends and family.

Until next time ….

- Brian Piergrossi

#FindtheGlow

A Personal Invitation:

If you’re like so many right now, in a time of great transition and uncertainty, looking for clarity of purpose, discipline, accountability, and a coherent strategy to take your life to the next level of well-being and fulfillment while activating your true mission, I work privately, and selectively with a small number of people each year.

For the first time in several years, I have space available for new clients.

If you’re interested and ready for that conversation, email me:

thebigglow@gmail.com

Today I quickly ran into a pharmacy in Pooler, Georgia, to run an errand.

I was awestruck by the cashier. A nondescript, middle-aged, dark-haired  woman with glasses. There was nothing extraordinary about her in physical appearance.

However, there was something extraordinary about her soul.

What was amazing was the kindness, care, presence, and all-around cheerfulness with which she dealt with each person in line, including me.

Her intention was clearly to brighten each person’s day who came to her counter.

It was like watching a priest, a shaman, a great alchemist, a supreme healer at work, in the most unlikely of places!

I could feel her silently praying over each person as a conduit for God’s love, while on the surface level she asked someone how they were doing, chatted about the weather, complimented them on their outfit, wished them a great day.

I left that cash register physically transformed. Lighter. Brighter. Unburdened by anything that stands in opposition to the Truth. She transmitted the Big Glow.

A reminder you don’t need to be a prime minister, a CEO, or a movie star to make a positive difference in the world.

You can be a cashier at a pharmacy in Pooler, Georgia.

You can do it right wherever  you are. No matter how insignificant, or unimportant it may seem.

In fact, there’s nowhere else to do it.

This is the time. Right here and now.

Brian Piergrossi

21st Season of the Men’s Mastermind with Brian Piergrossi begins tomorrow @ 6pm on Zoom

Let me know if you want to get in!

More Info

More Ways to Plug-In:

Personal Coaching:

https://brianpiergrossi.com/personalsessions/

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Personal Breathwork Sessions or Personal Digital Detox Retreats:

📧 thebigglow@protonmail.com

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My Podcast:

Spotify

YouTube

🌬️ Breathwork changed our lives — now we teach others how to guide it.

We created the Big Glow Breathwork Facilitator Training for those feeling called to move from participant to confident facilitator. This is a grounded, trauma-aware training focused on real skills: holding safe containers, structuring journeys, working with music, and leading with integrity.

If you feel drawn to guide others through the power of the breath — we’d love to walk that path with you.

✨ Learn more about our Breathwork facilitator training here: 

https://www.healingartsmgmt.com/breathwork-facilitator-training/

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Support us on Patreon

HTTP://patreon.com/bigglow

If you are reading this, you are someone on a conscious path of self-mastery, expansion & accountability.

This will be my 21st season leading my men’s mastermind group.

Our core group has been together for several years. This Winter I’m inviting a select handful of additional men to join us.

The focus is integrating a conscious, awakened, powerful masculinity, for greater focus, purpose, resiliency, strength, & accountability to reach new-found levels of success & manifestation in every area of life. What author David Deida calls ‘the third tier’.

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Who: 

The men who register for my mastermind groups are people who are interested in a supportive community to inspire, & hold them accountable, to living the life of their deepest dreams & God’s highest calling.

They are conscious entrepreneurs, or creatively minded, on a path of spiritual awakening. 

They are committed to activating a deeper level of inspired purpose, love, freedom, empowerment and abundance in their own lives, and for those around them.

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Some common questions.

How many people?

This group is limited to only 10 people to maintain optimal intimacy and cohesion.

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When?

We meet in a weekly Zoom call for approximately 60 minutes

The Fall season is a 16 session commitment Jan 15th - Apr 30th.

We meet Thursday evenings @ 6pm est.

It’s ok if you can’t attend every single meeting

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What are the meetings like?

The meetings are held sacred as a life-enhancing priority and will begin promptly at the specified time regardless of who is present. 

The meetings are upbeat, enriching, fun, encouraging, supportive, focused, and beneficial to each individual and the group as a whole.

Each member shares honestly, and vulnerably, ideas, support, information, feedback, and anything else that will help advance the individual and group goals.

All sessions are confidential and nothing that transpires will be shared publicly.

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What is the Format?

There are the Following Stages to Each Meeting:

*Check-ins: How are you feeling right now in your mind, your heart, your spirit, your body?

*We will review what has been positively achieved outwardly, and/or realized inwardly since the last meeting.

*We will also share any problems, or setbacks, experienced since the last meeting and ask for whatever support is requested.

*Brian will offer the group coaching & mentoring support followed, at times, by suggested homework. 

*Each member will share their intentions/goals for the following week.

*Goodbye

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Can we stay in touch between meetings?

Definitely! There is a private messaging thread to stay in touch, update and support each other on homework, insights, and accountability. between sessions. This is, in fact, where a lot of the best stuff transpires!

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How much does it cost?

Only $777 up front for 4 months (16 sessions). 

or 3 installments of $290 each.

Payment via PayPal, Venmo ASAP to thebigglow@gmail.com

(Bitcoin accepted)

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If you’re a woman reading this you are welcome to invite your husbands, boyfriends, brothers, sons, nephews and watch them transform in positive ways in the coming months before your eyes.

It’s been amazing group of miracles & positive transformational change.

We begin this Jan. 15th, on Zoom, Thursday, 6pm est.

Please email me ASAP if you’re interested in joining.

I look forward to hearing from you!

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Here’s some examples of what Ara meetings are like together:

Aug. 14th, 2025

https://youtu.be/jYZBaykH7cQ

Dec. 18th, 2025

https://youtu.be/1VFlrcQ8L-c

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More Ways to Plug-In:

Personal Coaching:

https://brianpiergrossi.com/personalsessions/

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Personal Breathwork Sessions or Personal Digital Detox Retreats:

📧 thebigglow@protonmail.com

=======

My Podcast:

Spotify

YouTube

🌬️ Breathwork changed our lives — now we teach others how to guide it.

We created the Big Glow Breathwork Facilitator Training for those feeling called to move from participant to confident facilitator. This is a grounded, trauma-aware training focused on real skills: holding safe containers, structuring journeys, working with music, and leading with integrity.

If you feel drawn to guide others through the power of the breath — we’d love to walk that path with you.

✨ Learn more about our Breathwork facilitator training here:

https://www.healingartsmgmt.com/breathwork-facilitator-training/

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Support us on Patreon

HTTP://patreon.com/bigglow

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Please feel free to reach out with any questions.

Thank you for sharing the journey.🙏

Invite Friends

While they differ on the specifics, all religions agree on the following: The state of your soul and your consciousness at the time of your death is a determining factor on where you go next.

When we think of the word 'death' we, of course, think of our transition from physical death to the afterlife.

However, there are many big deaths and rebirths throughout the course of our  human life as well, where the state of our consciousness at the time of transition is fundamental to what comes next.

Instead of drinking and drugging yourself unconscious amidst terrible music, what if New Year's was actually considered to be a sacred and holy time of transition?

A time to turn off the phone and the TV. A time to tune into your breath. A time to pray and meditate. A time commune with God's creation, as you engage in deep conversation,  

around the fireplace, with fellow souls on the path.

What if it was a time to prepare to sanctify your soul for the New Year? A time to get quiet and listen for the intentions that are being called forth over the next 12 months.

A time to ask to be held accountable to stepping into the highest and best version of yourself this coming year. 

I’m touched to see people travel from all over America to  join us for the Big Glow New Year's Digital Detox & Breathwork Retreat.

People from states like Florida, Alabama, Georgia, South Caroline, North Carolina, Virginia, Pennsylvania to name a few.

It's a new day, a new year, a new quarter century, a new me, and a new you.

Happy New Year!

Let’s get to work. 💪

New Podcast Episode 🔥

YouTube

https://youtu.be/XM8Gcq6OD4Y?si=jSPmcP66sXrCu81l

Spotify

https://open.spotify.com/episode/7oYvNewKb5QomzlAtSAQcN

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Where Are the Positive Role Models for Young Men?

Masculinity, the Manosphere, and Healthy Alternatives

In this episode, Brian Piergrossi and his son Gio examine the growing influence of negative male role models on young men—and why so many are being pulled into the manosphere, red pill, and blackpill worldviews.

We explore how online culture, dating frustration, political polarization, and identity confusion have shaped modern masculinity, and we ask a deeper question:

Where are the healthy, grounded male role models young men actually need?

The conversation examines influential figures who have shaped young men’s thinking over the past decade, including figures like  Jordan Peterson, Andrew Tate, Myron Gaines, Clavicular, and more recently Nick Fuentes.

Topics covered in this episode:

• Why young men are increasingly drawn to extreme ideologies

• The widening political divide between men and women

• Masculinity vs. interchangeability: are men and women really the same?

• Science, ideology, and politics: myth vs. reality

• Equality as opportunity vs. equality as outcome

• Truth vs. feelings—and why truth still matters

• Masculinity, responsibility, and the drive to be great

• Why blaming women weakens men

• The cultural demonization of masculinity—and its consequences

• Why healthy masculine strength leads to deeper love and respect for women

• The role religion can play in shaping healthy men

• Why a man should never prioritize his appearance over his relationship

This episode is a thoughtful, intergenerational conversation about masculinity, truth, responsibility, culture, and leadership—and what it really means to become a strong, grounded man in today’s world.

More Ways to Plug-In:

Personal Coaching:

https://brianpiergrossi.com/personalsessions/

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Men’s Mastermind Group- Weekly on Zoom – 21st Season with Brian Piergrossi (begins Jan 2026):

📧 thebigglow@protonmail.com

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Personal Breathwork Sessions or Personal Digital Detox Retreats:

📧 thebigglow@protonmail.com

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My Podcast:

Spotify

YouTube

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Big Glow Coaching, Breathwork & Retreat Facilitation Training

Our first group has graduated and is already working with their first clients.

Our next training will start in January: https://www.healingartsmgmt.com/breathwork-facilitator-training/

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Support us on Patreon

HTTP://patreon.com/bigglow

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Please feel free to reach out with any questions.

Thank you for sharing the journey.🙏

Invite Friends

We explore how online culture, dating frustration, political polarization, and identity confusion have shaped modern masculinity, and we ask a deeper question:

Where are the healthy, grounded male role models young men actually need?

The conversation examines influential figures who have shaped young men’s thinking over the past decade, including figures like Jordan Peterson, Andrew Tate, Myron Gaines, Clavicular, and more recently Nick Fuentes.

Topics covered in this episode:

• Why young men are increasingly drawn to extreme ideologies

• The widening political divide between men and women

• Masculinity vs. interchangeability: are men and women really the same?

• Science, ideology, and politics: myth vs. reality

• Equality as opportunity vs. equality as outcome

• Truth vs. feelings—and why truth still matters

• Masculinity, responsibility, and the drive to be great

• Why blaming women weakens men

• The cultural demonization of masculinity—and its consequences

• Why healthy masculine strength leads to deeper love and respect for women

• The role religion can play in shaping healthy men

• Why a man should never prioritize his appearance over his relationship

This episode is a thoughtful, intergenerational conversation about masculinity, truth, responsibility, culture, and leadership—and what it really means to become a strong, grounded man in today’s world.