Notes on True Intimacy… the New Paradigm in Conscious Relating…
True intimacy comes through being genuine and authentic in the moment… without any attempt at control or manipulation of another… or any attempt to create an image… without feeling any deficiency in your self or attempt to fill that deficiency through another …..
This comes through realizing your infinite spiritual essence and thus being relaxed and peace with who you are … without needing validation from any external source ….
It’s profound authenticity, sharing the truth of the mment, moment by moment, that opens the space for intimacy between two people….
Sharing authentically in the moment… is to live beyond the known … it’s authentically sharing the truth of the moment with such present moment innocence that on the relative level, you don’t even know what’s true until the moment reveals itself…. beyond any and all theories, ideologies, beliefs about the way you think you are supposed to be in this moment.. you are courageously vulnerable, genuine and raw.. then when you are communicating you are inviting another to join you in being fully in this moment together without resistance or division … which is the place of complete intimacy with another ….. which you share and communicate in ….
This brings a sense of the deepest peace…. of being at home together… and also the greatest passion … as you are both living in the unknown and whatever emerges out of the fire of the unknown is a continuing and constant miracle …. thus within this deepest peace, there is great passion to discover what will emerge together moment by moment…
There are two parts to this new paradigm in relating…. Part One is to be authentic and true to the moment in all your communications… Part two is to be fully present to listen to, see and be with another… to really want to see the truth of the other in this moment ..fresh, beyond any notion of a “past”.. seeing them unconditionally… beyond your ideas, theories, ideologies, beliefs of the way you think they are supposed to be, the way you think they’ve been in the past, or the way you think they’ll be in the future… to really see another … through your unique vibrational reflection creates a vibrational field between the two of you… that allows creativity, inspiration and a clarity of the moment to come through you that otherwise wouldn’t ….
This is why it feels so good to be in this space of love..
It’s a space of no limitation.. of completely being able to be yourself with another… and paradoxically… the creative fire… is present to continually evolve into what is new.. for the good of the whole… guided together by Spirit…
-Brian Piergrossi
http://brianpiergrossi.com/
